Before you decide

Before you decide

Most people who enquire are not accepted, and a good number of the people we do accept spend weeks reading before they get in touch. This page collects what we would want you to read first — including the pages where we say plainly that this is the wrong choice.

Nothing here is a brochure. If a page on this list makes you decide against us, it has done its job.

Before you commit

Before you commit

Three formats, compared on duration, screening, supervision and what happens afterwards — including where a retreat is the better and cheaper choice.

One client at a time, every member of staff under a non-disclosure agreement, and consent to be named that remains revocable at any time. Including what we cannot promise.

How the work actually functions

How the work actually functions

Our own term, and this page says so. Development across all five dimensions at once — physical, mental, emotional, social and spiritual — rather than one at a time.

The part that decides whether anything holds, and the part almost nobody sells. Why breakthroughs fade, and why month four is where it is settled.

Not our term, and this page says that too. What the coaching component consists of, plus the two research findings that argue against our own model.

If you read only one

If you read only one

If you are early and unsure, read retreat, coaching, or clinical program — it is the fastest way to work out whether the format is wrong for you before anything else matters.

If you have already tried something and it did not hold, read integration.

If discretion is your first question rather than your last, read confidentiality.

“The substance isn’t the therapy. It’s the catalyst.”

“The substance isn’t the therapy. It’s the catalyst.”

Hardi Põder, co-founder